psychoceejay {l Wrote}:
i have kids and 3 are going with me, kids are no excuse
you live with yours. I do not live with mine. I only see them for 2-3hours after work on a tuesday and a thursday, all of saturday and every 3rd sunday. So I treasure what little time I have with them.
No it is not my fucking fault either that me and my ex split. It was mutral and a long itme coming. We had grown apart from each other, fell out of love with each other. There was no reason for us to live or be together any more.
Mine are 5 and 4, so there is no-way on this planet they will go paintballing. Not until they are over the age of 10. Same with going to a football match or rugby match.